Failure?

When you break up with someone or get broke up with, what is the first thought or thing that happens?  Could be several or just one.

 - Fuck it, I'm better off without
 - This can't be happening, my life is over
 - I can fix this, I can fix this
 - They must be cheating, I'm going to kill a bitch
 - Is my dick too small???
 - It's okay, cause I got ?? on speed dial just in case

It doesn't really matter what the feeling is or how you deal with it.  If it ended, most likely is wasn't what you thought it was or wanted it to be to begin with.  Or maybe someone is dealing with something and the relationship is the one that suffers.  Either way, you have to figure out a way to move forward.  If you're important enough to the other person, it shouldn't take weeks, months, a year, to figure out.  If you weren't important enough, loved enough, remembered enough, thought of enough............then either you fuckin crazy and need to find a therapist or you know what, you do deserve better.   Don't spend too much time chasing something that doesn't exist for them.  Don't spend too much time wishing, hoping or wanting.  It only brings you negative energy and realllllyyyyy baaaddddd days.  Figure out a way to find your peace.  Go out, be with friends, burry yourself in work, make things happen.  Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself only makes you more of a downer.  It takes a little time and tenderness, but it will happen.   If it was meant to be, it will be, but only if they become the chasers.  You've chased enough!

As Always
Live, Laugh, Love
Lady Buck$